Firman hr ini d Abbalove..
7 perubahan menuju mns Kristus
1. Perubahan pola pikir
Rm 12:1-2 pny arah ilahi sesuai kehendak Tuhan
2. Perubahan pola emosi
Bergaul dgn org yg bs buat tenang
Yak 1: 19 emosi perlu didengar
Curhat pd Tuhan n org2 yg bs dipercaya
3. Perubahan pola komunikasi
Luk 6:45 pakai kt2 membangun n buang kt2 yg menyakiti
Koreksi sikap hati
Mohon Tuhan bersihkan hati
4. Perubahan pola tindakan
Kol 3:17 bertg jwb pd Tuhan n berdampak pd org lain
Tuhan menyempurnakan hdp kita yg tdk sempurna jk kita mau diperbaharui n menyerahkan hdp pd Tuhan.
5. Perubahan pola respons
Kol 3:23 utk memuliakan Tuhan
6. Perubahan pola tujuan
Slalu setting n ingat tujuan hdp spy ga main2.
Tujuan bekerja, menikah, ibadah, dll.
Spt apa org akan ingat kita saat di peri mati?
Meninggal tdk bawa harta.
Filipi 3:14 setia sampai akhir panggilan Sorgawi.
7. Perubahan pola hidup
Gal 2: 20 Kristus hdp dlm ku
Gaya hdp tdk bs lepas dr hadirat Tuhan.
Bekerja, piknik, bergaul berpusat pd Tuhan.
Org yg nekat berbuat dosa diingatkan tp klo msh nekat, dibiarkan saja.
Yesus ditinggikan dlm hdp mk kita dibutuhkan byk org n jd berkat.
Sabtu, 15 Juli 2017
Firman hr ini d Abbalove..
Jumat, 14 Juli 2017
Hola2 lama ga nulis blog..
Kali ini bhs ttg kriteria calon suami..kebykan ditanya..drpd dtanya2 melulu, copas aja..
Ini cm 2 diantaranya..😛wkwk..
Nb ini opiniku berdsrkan byk hal: Prioritas PH stlh Tuhan n famz (klo blm menikah)...ga main hati sejak single, ga mendua, mentiga, dsb..cobalah utk setia...🤗
PH bukan takdir, tp kita dikasih byk pilihan sm Tuhan..ada kehendak bebas krn bukan robot..tinggal kita mau pilih yg mn..Madu dan racun ada di depan..Kalau kriteria2 org yg dipilih memenuhi kehendak Tuhan itu jd berkat..Kalau mnurut keinginan sendiri jd kutuk..Begitulah kira2...
Di bawah ini copas dr c Nova..
All the single ladies, all the single ladies
2. Intinya sih suami itu yang
SAYANG & RESPECT sama kamu, ini PENTING BANGET.
"Ya iyalah sayang, kalau tak sayang masak mau pacaran sama akyu"
Tapi yuk kita perjelas definisi SAYANG :
Kamu itu PRIORITAS dalam hidupnya.
Jadi kalau kamu sedang sakit dan dia tetep berkutat dengan hobinya atau kerjaannya tanpa peduli sama kamu ---- TETOT (Tidak Sayang) ---- Coret dari hidupmu!!
Kalau kamu sedang ngomong sesuatu yang penting dan dia main HP ---- TETOT
Kalau dia memarahi kamu di depan umum (apapun alasannya) ---- TETOT
Tidak pernah berkorban uang untuk membelikan barang yang kamu suka. Atau malah lupa sama ulangtahun mu ---- TETOT
Lebih suka berada di tempat lain daripada di sampingmu ---- TETOT
Membentak, memaki, atau bahkan kekerasan fisik ketika ada konflik ---- TETOT BANGET
Mengajak berhubungan seksual sebelum menikah ---- TETOT
Sering berbohong atau membuat alasan atau menyalahkan kamu (oranglain) atas error yang dia buat ---- TETOT
Tidak punya semangat bekerja (visi ke depan tentang berkeluarga masih sangat absurd) ---- TETOT
Kembali ke inti yang saya sebut di awal, bahwa kamu harus jadi PRIORITAS dalam hidupnya dan HARUS Respect sama kamu ya ladies.
Ada kah cowo kaya gini?
ADAAA dan BANYAAKKK (Saya yakin masih banyak, amin amiiin)
Jadi Single Ladies hanya perlu mencari dengan hati-hati dan dengan sabarrrr
1. Selain harus SAYANG & RESPECT, syarat PENTING lain adalah CINTA TUHAN.
Bukan sekadar beragama atau melakukan kegiatan religius (aktif di pelayanan dan sebagainya),
namun benar benar Pria yang mencintai Tuhan, takut Tuhan, dan tercermin dalam setiap segi hidupnya.
Pria yang mencintai Tuhan akan takut berbuat dosa, takut melukai hati Tuhan nya, takut melukai hati kekasih hatinya (yaitu kamyuuu)
APakah jika kedua syarat penting sudah dipenuhi maka kehidupan pernikahan kalian akan sempurna?
Tentu saja TIDAK hehe.
Namanya pernikahan dari dua individu dengan latar belakang yang berbeda, tentu proses penyesuaian diri, proses belajar akan terus terjadi till death do us part.
Namun kalau kita sabar dan mencari pria sesuai dua kriteria penting di atas, maka bisa dipastikan bahwa kita akan disebut sebagai ISTRI yang BERBAHAGIA
Menjalani rumah tangga dengan segala lika liku nya namun tetap di dalam berkat & rahmat Tuhan, amiinnn.
PAsangan hidup itu bukan TAKDIR.
KIta manusia diberi hikmat marifat untuk memilih dan memilah.
Kita punya KItab Suci untuk dijadikan panduan dalam mencari dan menemukan.
KIta punya iman, punya TUHAN untuk tempat kita bertelut dan memohon.
Selamat mencari dan menemukan ya all the single ladies yang awesome
Minggu, 02 Juli 2017
Sblm pindahan, ibdh dulu..firman bagus bgt...
Firman kebaktian hr ini ttg rencana Kerajaan Allah atas keluarga dan komunitas..
Mns makhluk sosial jd butuh sesama.
Iblis gagalkan rencana Allah dgn buat keluarga n komunitas kehilangan arah/ tujuan.
Suami memimpin, istri menolong. .
Ada pemimpin n penolong.
Istri blh atur tp utk hal2 yg penting tu suami hrs tg jwb terutama tujuan hdp keluarga (istilahnya mau dibawa ke mana hubungan ini eh keluarga ini), nilai2 yg dijlni, pola didik anak dlm keluarga.
Ga blh terserah2 tp ksh masukan.
Pria hrs aktif berinisiatif n fokus pd tg jwb.
2. Tdk setia
Kacaukan arti kasih, cinta jd nafsu.
Jgn buka kesempatan, tutup sgala celah.
Keintiman itu ada tubuh, jiwa, roh..jd klo bersekutu dlm doa, firman n sharing jgn cm ke sdr sdri seiman tp ke keluarga jg...😀 Komunitas mengajarkan utk menyesuaikan diri n menerima org2 bahkan org2 yg pny cara beda yg tdk kita suka. Bs dibtk jd dewasa.
Bapa n pemimpin hrs pny kasih Bapa
-Mengasihi tanpa syarat
-Beri prioritas, wkt, pengorbanan
-Jd teladan bg anak cucu
Hadapi kegagalan dgn andalkan Tuhan
Doa org2 djwb melalui kita.
Jumat, 23 Juni 2017
WHY YOU SHOULD PRAY IN THE MORNING ❓❓❓
(MENGAPA ANDA HARUS BERDOA DI PAGI HARI ?)
⛳What is so important about morning prayers❓
( Apa yang begitu penting tentang doa pagi ? )
🎈Prayer in the morning is so important because you meet God before you meet the Devil.
( Doa di pagi hari sangat penting karena Anda bertemu Allah sebelum Anda bertemu Iblis )
🎈You meet God before you meet the circumstances of life.
( Anda bertemu Allah sebelum Anda bertemu dengan keadaan di sekitar hidup Anda )
🎈You talk to God before you talk to many people.
( Berbicara kepada Allah sebelum Anda berbicara dengan banyak orang )
🎈You fellowship with God before you fellowship with other people.
( Anda bersekutu dengan Allah sebelum Anda bersekutu dengan orang lain )
🎈You hear news from Heaven before you receive any breaking news.
( Anda mendengar berita dari Surga sebelum Anda menerima berbagai berita )
🎈You sit before God before you sit before people.
( Anda duduk di hadapan Allah sebelum Anda duduk di hadapan orang)
🎈You kneel before God before you kneel down before men.
( Anda berlutut di hadapan Allah sebelum Anda berlutut di hadapan manusia )
🎈You Honour God before you Honour people.
( Anda menghormati Allah sebelum Anda menghormati orang )
🎈You get into His Presence before you get into the presence of people.
( Anda masuk ke hadirat-Nya sebelum Anda masuk ke dalam kumpulan orang )
🎈You feed your Spirit before you feed your body.
( Anda memberi makan Roh Anda sebelum Anda mbri makan tubuh anda).
🎈You call GOD before you call all other small names.
( Anda memanggil ALLAH sebelum Anda memanggil semua nama lainnya )
🎈You see GOD before you see yourself in the mirror.
( Anda melihat ALLAH sebelum Anda melihat diri sendiri di cermin
🎈You sweep your heart before you sweep your yard!
( Anda membersihkan hati Anda sebelum Anda menyapu halaman Anda)
Copas from WA group..
Selasa, 13 Juni 2017
How Will I Know When I Have Found “The One?”
If I had a dime for every time someone asked me this question, I would be stinkin’ rich.
Lately I was talking with a friend who brought this question up. She is an independent woman, has a lot going for herself, and is perfectly content with her single state at the moment. Still yet, she can’t help but imagine what the person she will marry will be like, what qualities he will have, how they will meet, what he will look like, etc.
But the biggest question that she wanted an answer for is, how will I know I have found the right person?
“Now don’t say I will just know, I’m so tired of hearing that answer,” She said to me.
I couldn’t help but laugh, because I realized she wasn’t going to like my answer.
“Actually, it is actually more simple than you think it is. When God determines that the time is right, He will reveal that person to you in a light you never seen them in that way before.”
Sometimes the most beautiful things are so simple. God is love, He is the author of love, and you don’t have to force or stress anything because when the time comes, He will reveal who you will marry. He will guide your steps. But just stay close to Him. Embrace His love and stay in tune with his voice.
I used to stress this question, way more than I should have. If I had known then what I know now, I would have just trusted God. Because it literally is just that simple. In your heart, when the time comes you will know that is right person.
When God sees fit to bring your partner into your life, He will do so and reveal it to you when the time is right.
While I can’t give you a play by play of how it is going to go down when you meet the person you are going to marry, I do know that it will be unique, it will be wonderful, and it will be beautiful.
God knows exactly what you need and when you need it. Our only job is to trust our Father, that He will give us all the things we need in His perfect timing.
The best advice I could give you is to relentlessly pursue God in your current season, be faithful to Him, and trust that He is preparing your future for you. His plans are to prosper you, and not to harm you. He wants to give you His best in life, and sometimes the best things in life take patience, because we aren’t ready for that stage of our life just yet.
You are a princess in preparation. Instead of stressing that you will “miss” the person that God has for your life, trust God that nothing in all the earth can stop what God has ordained. When God wants two people to be together, they will be, plain and simple. We don’t have to get ahead of ourselves, we can let God take the lead.
As a daughter/son of God look for qualities in a spouse that remind you of Jesus.
Does that person love you like Jesus?
How do they love others?
What is at the center of their heart?
Do they bear the fruits of the spirit?
Do they walk in love?
How do they act when no one else is watching?
God desires that we as Christians are equally yoked with our spouses. Equally yoked means to marry another believer who is on the same spiritual level as you. When you are both pushing and striving for God, you are moving in the same direction. If you marry an unbeliever, you will both be traveling in opposite directions, which is not the will of God in a marriage.
Strive to grow closer to God together. Pull each other toward God. Let God remain at the center of your marriage, and you will be blessed.
God is taking care of you and He loves you.
He has the very best in store for you, his precious child. You can trust that your Maker has everything under control, and that when you place your love story in God’s hands, He will give you a love so much better than any fairy tale you’ve ever seen.
How Will I Know It’s the Will of God?
Is it the Will of God?
Guest Post By: Laura Reyes
There comes a time in your life that you will meet the person that you have been praying for all along. There comes a sense of peace that truly does surpass all understanding. You see the hand of God in your relationship from the beginning.
When I started dating my husband I knew he was the one for me because everything I have ever prayed for and asked God for was being answered one by one. Those hidden desires in my heart that I didn’t even realize I wanted but God knew that I wanted, even if I didn’t tell Him about them.
God’s will is perfect, it doesn’t lack anything. God’s will brings joy and peace. He came at the perfect moment in my life, not when I was looking for him like crazy, but when I least expected it and with who I least imagined.
My husband and I will serve a lot in church together and we have these deep, long conversations. One day, before we started dating, while I was talking to him, I said to myself, “God, thank you for showing me that there are good guys out there and that there are guys who are respectful, loving, and pure.”
Little did I know that this guy, the one that God was using to show me these things, was the man that He had set aside for me.
I started to see life in a completely different way. Little by little, all of those hurts and the mentality I had about men was erased. Being with him encouraged me to seek God more and never in my life had I felt so sure about something.
Remember that God’s will doesn’t bring confusion so if you feel the slightest doubt, then you know it’s a sign for you to continuing seeking the voice of God.
The longer I was with him, the more that God used him to show me what real love was. It was a love that didn’t change its mind, that loved me even when I was acting a bit crazy, that was patient with me as God changed my insecurities. and that took care of me when I didn’t know my way.
He sought the Lord for our future and made sure that every decision we made was aligned to the will of God and then together we got on this journey called marriage that has forever changed my life.
So how do you know if they are the will of God? Who are you when you are with them? Do they bring you closer to God or do you feel like your relationship is making you drift away? You can find the answer in the word of God.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8 says, “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it’s not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trust, always hopes, and always perseveres. Love never fails.”
Love is patient: It’s willing to wait to hear from God to make the next move. It doesn’t rush things but desires to do things right. Love means being patient with your partner. Love waits for them and doesn’t get mad if there is something that they are not doing right.
Love is kind: It doesn’t hurt the other person. It uses kind words when speaking. It Doesn’t disrespect the other person, but has a heart of love and kindness. It knows that the person they have next to them was given to them by God.
Love does not boast; it is not proud: It doesn’t think they are always right. It doesn’t have a prideful attitude but is willing to lay down their desires to please the other person.
It is not self-seeking: It does not run the other way when they don’t get what they want.
It’s not easily angered: It has so much love for the other person that it’s hard for them to get upset. They are willing to talk and communicate about anything, and they know that there is nothing together that they cannot solve.
It keeps no record of wrongs: Forgiveness is a way of life for them. You realize that the other person is human and that there will be mistakes made, but you speak about what hurt you and you make the decision to completely forgive and never bring up again what was done. You forgive and you forget.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth: You realize that together you are a team and together you create a vision and goals that you both want to achieve. It does not become a competition. You don’t feel like you have to do something to impress the other person or to be better than them. You are so in love that when they are blessed, you are blessed and when they are hurt, you are hurt.
Love always protects: You don’t speak badly about them. You protect their image, you protect them from harm, and you are always looking out for their best interest.
Love always trust: You don’t worry about them cheating on you or doing something bad because you have complete trust in who they are. They never give you a reason to doubt them. You trust them with your most inner thoughts and secrets.
Love always hopes: Love has a plan, has a purpose, and together you create your mission statement. You seek God together and you realize that God has joined you together to complete one purpose and one assignment on earth.
Love always preserves: You are always pushing to strengthen your relationship and to reach your goals. If things are becoming a little bumpy you don’t give up but you seek God’s guidance. You persevere and push forward together.
Love never fails: Because what God has joined together, no man can ever separate.
Before You Choose A Life Partner, Read This
Do you ever just have a dream that you know is from God?
The other night I had a spiritual dream that has lingered with me these last few days and I feel like it was for you, the person reading this.
In my dream, (I was observing from afar) I was watching individuals choose their partner, but it wasn’t just for their wedding day, they were choosing a partner to go to battle with. In my dream these couples trained together, took advice from their elders, were attending counseling together, and preparing for not only marriage but for war.
When I awoke, God started speaking to me about this dream.
What He told me was that when you choose the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with, you are not only choosing a husband/wife, you are choosing an accomplice, a partner in crime, a HELPER. (Where else have you heard the term helper? Genesis 2:18)
Life has a way of bringing you to your knees, and when that time comes, you are going to need someone fighting by your side rather than against you.
A wise woman in my life once told me, not too long after my husband and I got married, to remember that when the hard times came to remember he was my husband and not my enemy and to now allow the enemy to come between us.
Choosing a life partner is not something to take lightly. Choose someone who is going to fight this battle with you, serve God with you, and love you just as Christ loves the church, because you are going to need it.
Choose someone who displays Godly characteristics not just in the good times, but in the bad times as well.
Marry the person that is willing to get down on their hands and knees and intercede on your behalf when you are down in the pit. Marry the person who is going to go to war with you.
Marriage isn’t about the wedding day, there is much, much more to it. Does your relationship have the substance to make it through the long haul? Are you willing to stick around and not be ruled by your emotions but rather by the love of God and the covenant you have both made together?
This isn’t a light subject, so I hope you will not take it as so. God wants you to bless you with the kind of love story that only He can give, but you are going to need someone who will stick by your side when the world around you comes crashing in, and you will need to be that kind of person.
So again I say, choose wisely. Practice discernment when choosing a partner and most of all pray for them. Every time you get on your knees and pray for the person you are going to marry, before and after the wedding, you are going to war on their behalf.
It is worth it to ask yourself the hard questions now rather than later, and it is beyond important to pray for your future husband/wife and to seek God’s approval first and foremost on choosing a life partner/battle partner.