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Selasa, 21 November 2017

Talenta

Kmarin Minggu bukan 1 kebetulan..olah raga di bunderan HI...jd ga bs ikt ibdh pemuda..cm nonton bareng Hacksaw Ridge...ttg org yg sgt pegang prinsip Kitab Suci utk ga bunuh dlm perang tp berjuang obati para pahlawan., Jd ikut ibadah sore gerimis2..
😂
Matius 25:14-30
Slg membangun dlm komunitas
Mengelola dgn bijaksana
Bertanggung jawab dlm tugas2 n berintegritas utk Tuhan bukan manusia
Produktif
Yg penting bukan brp lama hdp tp brp tinggi kualitas hdp
Berbagi dgn byk org
Mengasihi Tuhan n sesama
Lakukan panggilan krn Tuhan sdh percayakan
Setia pd Tuhan dlm perkara2 kecil
Kekekalan lbh penting drpd hdp saat ini
Hidup adl anugerah yg hrs disyukuri.

Ada peneguhan Allah ttg talenta kita
Promosi n diberi tanggung jawab dlm perkara besar
Direndahkan di dunia gpp, yg penting dihormati dgn perayaan bersama Tuhan di Sorga


Jumat, 17 November 2017

Single 😀

Gbr ini mengingatkanku pd tmnku yg pusing cari pengganti2 secepat kilat setelah putus..dlm hitungan hari..
Stelah sm A, sm B, sm C..
Dia ga mau sendirian..krn sdh terbiasa berpasangan..
Sbnernya lebih penting kalo pny hubungan yg dekat sm Tuhan..
Soalnya berharap sm manusia isinya kebykan kecewa, berharap sm Tuhan itu memberi kekuatan baru...
Jika pada mulanya sudah berpasangan, kita mungkin ga bs menikmati sendirian..alone with God..
Only with Him..be the whole man/ woman in God..
☺ God+man= 100%..God+woman= 100%.. God+man+woman= 100%...


Wejangan pemilihan pasangan

Meet up sm c Windy...cicik pemimpinku grup Wanita Bijak modul 2...
Heheh...sbenernya kadang2 galau menunggu suatu ketidakpastian..atau beri kesempatan pd bbrp orang yg jelas2 menyukaiku...tp msh penelitian mereka memenuhi kriteria2 apa nggak..antara lady in waiting...sm waiting n dating...😀😅
Dikasih wejangan dr c Windy utk memilih pasangan yg sungguh2 memperjuangkan cinta itu melalui tindakan...bukan cm kata2 atau malah cm dlm diam aja...yg pasti tu tindakan dlm kebenaran...bukan dlm kejahatan...
Cowok hrs lebih memperjuangkan cewek n ambil inisiatif..
Klo org yg pasif2 aja cenderung ga bner2 cinta sm ceweknya..
Mnurutku misalnya kamu diminta buktikan cintamu melalui seks bebas...jangan mau...itu cuma tipuan aja...permainan iblis...seks itu harus setelah pernikahan kudus...krn memang tercipta demikian sejak semula...
😀😇 blm tahu memilih yg mana..yg pasti mau penelitian2 dulu..


Are They In Your Life For a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime?

Are They In Your Life For a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime?
By The Praying Woman 
http://theprayingwoman.com/are-they-in-your-life-for-a-reason-a-season-or-a-lifetime/
Posted on November 16, 2017
RELATED ITEMS: LETTING GO , OR A LIFETIME , REASON , RELATIONSHIPS ,
SEASON As I think back on the relationships I’ve had in my life, I feel blessed. Blessed to have experienced them.
I’ve had work relationships that were for a reason.
I’ve had ex’s and friendships that were for a season.
…And I have people in my life now that I pray are there for a lifetime.
I had to learn to see each relationship as not so much a devastating loss, but this wonderful experience I was so fortunate to have in the first place.
No one likes to think of their relationship as temporary , but the truth is… people enter our lives for a reason, season, or a lifetime. When we try to force relationships beyond their purpose, we will only end up disappointed.
How do you figure out which one it is? We may never know, but hopefully this helps.
A Reason
You may be thinking, well everyone is in your life for a reason right?
Well this is true, but when someone is in your life just for a particular reason . . . It is usually to meet a need you or they have prayed for.
God has sent them or you to assist through a difficulty, to provide with guidance and support, to aid physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They are there only for the reason God need them to be or vice versa.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part, the relationship will come to an end. Sometimes you just drift apart. Sometimes God will remove them from your life completely. You may not understand it and it may even be hard to let go.
What we must realize is that the need has been met, the desire has been fulfilled, the work is done. The prayer has been answered and now it is time to move on.
A Season
Sometimes we find ourselves in difficult seasons, because of our own doing. Making poor decisions, not praying to God for direction before making important decisions.
Examples of this are bad money management, neglecting your health, and choosing to be in ungodly relationships that do not align with God’s word.
When people come into your life for a season . . . It’s usually to help you grow, or to teach you a lesson. They may teach you something you may have never learned had it not been for this particular season.
Many will say that seasons bring eye opening experiences. They usually give you a new perspective on life.
Whenever you find yourself going through a tough season, remember God is not punishing you. Sometimes He has to allow us to grow and learn through our poor decisions in order for us to grow closer to Him.
It may hurt or feel as though the pain will never stop. But remember, it’s only for a season.
A Lifetime
Lifetime relationships are a gift from God. Cherish them. These are the relationships you are blessed to have until one of you take your last breath. (Family , friends , your spouse. etc.)
Don’t get me wrong, just because they are God sent, does not mean they are always going to be easy breezy. All relationships take effort on both parts.
Somedays you will probably feel like the relationship is not worth it. Other times you will feel thankful that God has placed them in your life.
Think about the people in your life over the years. Whether they were there for a reason, a season or a lifetime, accept them and treasure them for however long they were meant to be part of your life.
…Or as Dr. Seuss once wrote: “Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.” Perhaps one of my favorite quotes ever!


Minggu, 22 Oktober 2017

Single doesn't mean available for all men

Siang ini dikirimin message sm org d IG...
"Kamu single ya? Aku pdkt in boleh?"
Zzz..
Gue sbg wanita tegas lgs jawab, "Ga boleh. Deketin aja cewek2 yg mudah dideketin. Byk yg mau deketin aku tp kutolak.Palingan cm 1 yg boleh."
=_=
Single doesn't mean available for all men..
Single juga bukan berarti ga ada yg deketin jd boleh sembarangan deketi.
Well, drpd wasting time mending ditolak dr awal.
Bukan berarti ga boleh dket, tp klo awal nanya sinle, itu ga sopan sama skali..
Pria hrs blajar cara sopan deketin wanita..
😂 Sekian n thanks...


Bible Conference "Simson-Antara Kejayaan n Kejatuhan"

Bible Conference "Simson-Antara Kejayaan n Kejatuhan"
Rev. Bill Crowder
Note by me (PDS)

Hakim2 13-16

Rambut Simson simbol nazar/ komitmen pd Allah. Allah adl sumber kekuatannya. Allah yg memilih Simson jd hakim.
Perjanjian diabaikan dgn menikahi bgs Filistin, pelacur, n Delila.

Pilihan -> konsekuensi -> pilihan -> konsekuensi

Cinta buat Simson buta akan trik2 Delila utk mengetahui rhs Simson.
Simson tdk curiga knp Delila tanya2 soal kekuatannya gara2 cinta butanya.
Terkadang cinta buta, tp pernikahan bukakan mata kita.

Cinta Simson bertepuk sebelah tgn, Delila cm memanfaatkan Simson.
Pria sering berbuat bodoh gara2 dekat dgn wanita cantik.
Delila memanipulasi Simson dgn rasa bersalah.

Bukan cm main2 ksh jwban salah tp Simson izinkan Delila memanipulasinya.
Rhs mulai dibocorkan di jwban ke 3.
Delila mempertanyakan cinta Simson padanya, pdhl Delila tidak pernah ungkapkan cinta pd Simson.
Delila menekan n merayu Simson.

Simson tdk belajar dr respons Yusuf yg berhikmat dgn jaga jarak thd istri Potifar shg tdk berbuat dosa.
Simson malah mendekati cobaan shg dia menderita krn cinta spt mau mati rasanya.

Simson makin jauh dr Tuhan, bukan hakim yg bw umat pd Allah tp dia scr pribadi menjauh dr Allah.
Dia bukan teladan yg baik.
Potong rambut Simson yg dilakukan oleh Delila jd simbol ketidaktaatan.

Ironis krn Simson buat keputusan2 yg salah.
-ikuti ketertarikan seks -> gagal -> dipermalùkan.
-marah -> bakar ladang Filistin -> mantan istri n mertua Simson dibakar warga.

Filistin dipakai Tuhan utk  mendisiplinkan Simson.
Dia tuai apa yg ditaburnya.

Awalnya Simson k Gaza utk kepuasan seks.
Akhirnya dia dipaksa n jd korban dr nafsu seksnya sendiri, giling2 gandum jd budak sbg ganti binatang penarik beban. Dia dihina n dipermalukan musuh2nya utk melawak.

Ini tjd krn Simson tdk paham sumber kerapuhan rohani.
Selama ini hdp dr kekuatan n kecukupan shg tdk sadar Tuhan meninggalkannya.
Krn terlena dgn tingginya berkat Allah jd diperdayakan n jatuh scr absolut.

Filistin mengira mereka menang krn berhala Dagon padahal Allah yg menyerahkan utk pendisiplinan Simson.
Simson dikalahkan oleh nafsu seks n ktdkmampuan berjln bersama Allah.
Simson tertipu krn mengira kekuatan itu dr dirinya, pdhl dr Tuhan.
Jangan sombong.

Simson seumur hidup berpikir tidak butuh Tuhan.
Dia mulai kembali pd Allah dgn doa yg penuh campuran balas dendam.
Tuhan memelihara, memanggil n memberkati Simson.
Allah setia. Meski kita ge setia
Simson minta diingat oleh Tuhan krn rasa sakit.
Seringkali saat ada dlm masalah, kita merasa Allah melupakan kita, padahal sbenarnya Tuhan tdk pernah meninggalkan kita (Ibr 13: 5)

Dlm Bible, 3x dicatat ttg org berdoa krn kesulitan yg ekstrim.
1 Sam 1 Hana yg disakiti madunya berdoa lalu melahirkan Samuel
Simson minta diingat Tuhan
Dlm PB, ada penjahat yg disalib minta diingat Yesus


Tragedi Simson tjd krn tdk berhikmat.
Simson diingat berdsrkan jumlah org yg dibunuhnya n ia mengambil nyawa sendiri utk bunuh Filistin.
Ayat 31 berbagi kubur dgn ayahnya.

Ibr 11 smua pahlawan iman itu lemah tp dipakai Allah, jd msh ada harapan.
Dgn latar blkg berhala n kegagalan Israel, Simson lahir krn anugerah Allah.

We see God severeignity n Simson's choices.
Semua krn kebaikan anugerah Tuhan.
Kejahatan adl natur dosa mns.
Simson yg sama skali tdk spt pahlawan yg terdaftar dlm pahlawan iman.
Kebaikan2 tetap Allah kerjakan dlm hdpnya.
God works in broken people n heal us.
Kita manusia yg rapuh thd cobaan.


Kesimpulanku:
Allah berdaulat tp manusia diberi kehendak bebas.
Manusia sering menyalahgunakan kebebasan itu sehingga memilih dosa.
Tidak boleh menyalahkan Tuhan atas konsekuensi dr pilihan yg salah.
Kita harus mencari kehendak Tuhan n tdk ikuti keinginan sendiri.
Semua krn anugerah Nya. Tuhan yg memilih org percaya.
Allah berkarya lwt mns yg hancur. Tuhan bs pakai kita yg lemah krn Dia berkarya n berkehendak utk kebaikan Nya.
Allah setia meski kita tidak setia. Msh ada kesempatan n tempat bgi org beriman dlm kisah Allah.

Smg memberkati...🤗


Kamis, 12 Oktober 2017

Mentoring for the marketplace

I am blessed to be invited to "Mentoring for the Marketplace" seminar. The speaker is Dr. Tan Soo Inn, MTh, DMin. This seminar uses full of English conversations.
I learn many lessons from the seminar:
1. Kingdom needs king, people n place
2. Trust n obey God
3. We must change road from our own desire to God's will
4. Kingdom of God is the center of our life
5. We must tell n do the best, talk about human value
6. We are saved by God's grace, it's not because of good habit
7. Have personal wholeness in God, healthy emotion n physics
8. Praying, sharing n encouraging others. Listen to their problems
9. Mentoring is changing n helping people to be a person who God wants him/her to be
10. All transformations come from Jesus. To God to be glory. Praise the Lord. It's not about me.

Without Christ, there is no kingdom. All will be ash. Love God, love people, n love yourself. Deep relationship with Christ is the key to be blessing to others..Mr. Tan Soo Inn encourages me, my writing activities, n my business..He understands that writing is not easy..
🤗😇 Keep learning, shining n moving forward...